The 4 Love Styles Courses 

Stop leaving love to fate!

Use the science of attachment to create a lifetime of love

Join Chelli Pumphrey in learning about the Four Love Styles:

Did you know that despite very few people knowing about attachment, it is actually one of the strongest influences on our adult relationships?

If you don’t know what attachment is, don’t worry. I’ve made this psychological concept easy to understand in my Four Love Styles Courses.  You can purchase individual courses or a bundle...customize to fit your unique needs!  These courses are videos that will be delivered to your inbox. You can watch and learn at your own pace.


Before I share more, let me ask you this…does any of this sound familiar?

  • I get consumed with thoughts of someone I'm dating to the point where I can't focus on anything else.

  • I have a lot of fear that my partner won't love me or will leave me.

  • I sometimes do dramatic things to get my partner's attention, like threatening to leave, trying make him or her jealous, or constant texting or calling.

  • I sometimes feel smothered by partners after too much time together and find ways to pull away.

  • I tend to have more emotional pain in relationships than when I’m single.

  • I find that I can often feel bad about myself when I’m with a partner, often questioning if there is something wrong with me.

  • I have a pattern of sabotaging relationships as soon as things get close.

  • I can't seem to get past the superficial details in a partner and it pushes me away.

  • I have a history of dramatic and high conflict relationships.

  • I sometimes secretly wonder if I'm the reason I'm still single.

  • I keep attracting commitment-phobes!


If you can relate to any of these statements, then it is likely that attachment is a key factor that is keeping you single, or in unhappy relationships.

You can use the secrets of attachment to help you QUICKLY DECREASE DATING ANXIETY and TACKLE INSECURITIES that arise when you're dating or in a relationship.

You'll feel confident and empowered because you'll understand why you react the way you do... and what kind of partner to look for.

In fact, here are just a few of the secrets of attachment you’ll learn in the Four Love Styles Courses:


  • How to identify your unique Love Style:


Understanding your Love Style and a partner's Love Style is the NUMBER ONE KEY to finding love. A Love Style is my unique concept that I've developed to help you understand a complex psychological concept called attachment. I'll keep it simple, and incredibly helpful for you. You're going to learn HOW and WHY your brain is wired to attract or repel intimacy. Understanding your Love Style can break decades of unhealthy relationship patterns!

  • The role of authenticity in finding a healthy relationship:


Your Love Style can actually make you hide your true identity, just for the sake of connection. The danger in this is that if you aren't authentic, it is difficult to connect with a partner who is a good match for you.  You will learn how your Love Style can get in the way of attracting the perfect partner for you.

  • Love Style compatibility and how to decipher a partner's Love Style.


Do you notice patterns in the people you date? Perhaps you keep dating emotionally unavailable people, or people who are afraid to commit. Maybe you have a history of dating highly anxious partners who seem to come with a lot of "drama". Do you seem to crave connection and intimacy more than your partners?


In these courses, you'll learn how to decipher a partner's Love Style within a few dates so you can stop wasting your time with partners who aren't compatible with you. Trust me, this will save you a lot of heartbreak!

Love Styles 101

Learn the fundamentals of attachment, your unique Love Style, and how it affects your relationships.

Mastering Your Love Style

Learn which Love Styles are more compatible and why, and how to identify a partner's Love Style from the beginning so you can avoid heartbreak.

The Love Connector Kit

Are you a Love Connector? This course will give you everything you need to understand and manage your anxiety you experience in your relationships and dating. Soothe your mind and heart with knowledge, practical tips, and empowered awareness.

Love Resister Survival Kit

Are you a Love Resister? This course will help you manage that pesky lizard brain that is pulling you away from love. You'll learn practical tips to help you stay focused and connected to a partner.

Exclusive Bundles

The Love Style Basics

  • Love Styles 101 Course

  • Mastering Your Love Style

Love Connector Bundle

  • Love Styles 101 Course

  • Mastering Your Love Style

  • Love Connector Survival Kit

Love Resister Bundle

  • Love Styles 101 Course

  • Mastering Your Love Style

  • Love Resister Survival Kit